One of your parents who has always been the perfect parent is being accused of being a pedophiler by a child in your church. You have never had any clue or indication that your parent could do that. The only proof is the child's word. Do you stand behind your parent and fight the accusation and totally believe them. Or do you keep your children from spending any time alone with their Grandparent?
A co-worker/ close friend always finds one excuse or another from doing anything . She always wants to spend time with her husband and kids, and has no time to do anything. Even when you include her whole family in on a outing, she acts all excited at first, then with in 2 minutes she starts making up excuses as to why she can't do it. How do you handle that? And when do you give up trying?