Situation Sunday #19

So sorry to all for posting this late, I am out pet-sitting, Midgie's puppy. I forgot the cord for my laptop, and my battery was almost empty. Midgie gave me her password yesterday at work for her pc, and at work there it sits. So now after a day of a outing with the puppy of 8 weeks on a leash and my Momma' in a wheel chair we attended a BQ at one of our boat clubs. And at last I am back at her house with my ac power charging......on with the situations.

Situation #1} Once upon a time you were married. For well over 20 years. You treated all on the in law's side as your own. You saw births come and deaths go together. You were named Godparent of a child. Your spouse wanted out of the relationship. It was nothing you done, they just decided..." They didn't want to be married any more. It was very painful for you to deal with the whole thing. For awhile you tried to stay involved in the other side of the family, with out having to deal with the one you were with. Time passed and you just stopped sending gifts to your { their } nieces and nephews. You received a call from your X- they tell you your Goddaughter or Godson was murdered. Do you call your X-sister in law,,,the mother and offer condolences? Do you attend the funeral?

Situation #2} A friend of your who you know that is single and hates being single, you set them up on a date with a male friend of yours. She thinks he is a good guy, cute, caring and willing to give it a try. She confides in you that even thou he is great and all there is no magic for her there. You tell her to keep trying perhaps it shall come. Maybe if he lays the charm on and stops going so slow. He tells you that he thinks she is the one, the one he wants to stay with and rock on the porch with in the golden years. A few weeks have passed and she tells you she has broken it off with him. Do you even call him up and talk with him,or just wait till you run into him, and then tell him you are sorry?